BlacknTan said:
I should have learned to stay out of this discussion by now because..
1. I'm not one of the acknowledged coticule experts, and
2. My opinions seem to be unwelcome. But
since good sense and a shy retiring nature was never my strong suit, I'll add a few thoughts anyway.
These definitions were arrived at by a member. They cannot erase the long held beliefs and connotations derived from years of experience and usage in each one of us. That would be exceedingly difficult to overcome.
To me, crisp has a feeling of some discomfort. This is not to be contrary to the laws of the land, but it reflects what "crisp" has meant to me for a lifetime. When I grew up, winters were a bit more harsh that they are now, due to "global warming," or just plain climatic cycles. It's hard to relate the word to a completely different experience.
I see definitions as I see laws. Fluid and subject to individual interpretation. Just as I obey laws that arte good for myself or society, I do not knuckle under to ones that are inane and designed to see if we are stupid enough to follow them. The spoken, or written word, is not something easily quantified because of these reasons. So, while I'll try my best to stay within the definitions set down in communication here, they will always be colored by my own sense of that definition.
That is something tough to overcome, and as I get older, I recognize that everything is not black and white, but a shade of gray. And rigidity, in one's thought and actions are often a sign of one not yet seeing enough of the world.
Bill,
I'm not sure I know exactly where to start but will start with
this (pay special attention to the use of "pleasantly" to describe the cold, and invigorating), and I'll go from the beginning of your post.
You're point 1) you're absolutely right
You're point 2) stop being whinny - you're not a victim, so don't act like one.
3) those definitions were absolutely not derived by a member. They are the definitions as found in the dictionary, and unless I wrote a dictionary that I can't recall, I didn't do it. If you think something means what it absolutely does not mean, as defined by a dictionary, that doesn't mean people are inflexible for pointing out your error. The fact that I used the defined words when describing Bart's descriptors is very much secondary to my point. Words mean things, and when people stop having standards in their communication due to willful misuse of their vehicles of thought, we lose a lot in our discourse.
4) You're right that definitions are fluid over time, but currently, words mean what they mean, and they are up to interpretation to some extent, but you lose all credibility in the conversation, as far as I see it, when you blatantly disregard the fact that "brisk" is one of the meanings of "crisp", yet you try to argue that they don't mean the same thing. Not to mention the fact that as another definition "fresh, invigorating" is used. I can't believe how much I'm having to repeat myself.
5) I hope to all that is holy that when I get older, I don't lose my ability to admit when I'm wrong and take responsibility for my own misconceptions, passing them off as someone else's weakness of character/experience. The minute I do that, I'm ready to pass on to see what awaits me after this life.
6) My absolute favorite thing about being an adult is the choice to associate with those whom I wish to associate. I make a point of exercising that choice. I make a point of associating with people who make decisions based on the merits of the evidence instead of the person making the point, and as I said, I have no time for people who are intentionally obtuse (except for Robin, of course).
Bart,
Of course, you have the prerogative to use whatever words you wish, but I ask you to consider when saying something is too "crisp" to be "brisk", you are effectively saying it is too "brisk" to be "brisk" based on the definitions that Ralfy posted.
Like I said, I don't really care either way.
Take care all. Be well,
Paul