danjared
Well-Known Member
Bart said:Collecting hones. I just don't have collector's blood, but several of my friends have. Some guys collect music record, some collect WW-II relics, some collect straight razors. Their's one thing I noticed that all these serious collectors disgust: it's guys that hoard. I 'm sure that I don't need to explain the difference to you. A genuine collector would never refer to his hobby as an acquisition disorder, as he would find the lack of personal restraint that suggest, not only a disgrace for himself, but also for the objects he loves and studies.
On Coticule.be we welcome collectors and treat hoarders with compassion. I realize that offends the latter. But rather that than becoming a forum that goes along with a disorder that leads only to gear fetishism. If we were into selling as much Coticules as possible, I would probably not have any problem with that. But I have not started this place to promote Coticule sales, only to offer support to people who want to put theirs to good use.
Nick:
Bart's quote is the only point I was trying to get at. If you want to collect, that's fine. But framing it as you being ill and unable to control yourself is another thing. Going in public and saying that you can't control your purchasing desires, stating (even jokingly) that you're following a rehab program, and mentioning how your credit payments are out of control--those aren't what I came to this site (or B&B ) to hear on a regular basis.
I also hear you say how you are having difficulty learning your coticule, yet you also mention being distracted by this or that new hone purchase on a regular basis. Sure, you won't learn something unless you stick to it. But don't discourage someone else from trying to stick to it when you are unwilling to.