might not be silly in an area with hard water. i live in one now that leaves a mineral film in pots, and on glasses. A place prone to kidney stones, if you drink much tap water. I can see the 'rule' escaping the reason for it, and distilled being used when it's unnecessary. Adding detergent to float off swarf better, and to stabilize the slurry consistency, isn't the same thing as soaking a stone in mineral-rich water repeatedly and allowing it to dry.
it does sort of sound prissy. but it still might make sense some places. It matters somewhat more at the moment, because the enlightenment on how slurry acts differently on coticules and Jnats was a blinding flash and a deafening report. SO what IF I've been treating my Jnats like coticules with this SOAKING thing, and merely disguising it by also using the detergent? MAYBE I ought to go back to soaking all my JNats by default, instead of NOT by default, like coticules. hmm. I bet at least one or two rocks will act very differently.